My Crush Is Avoiding Me ? 13 Reason Why
It’s no fun thinking that your crush is intentionally avoiding you.
But as much as it hurts not to see them, it can be even more painful when you’re not sure why they’re going out of their way not to see you.
You sent a text and never received a response. You reached out when you saw your crush at the mall. They didn’t respond and turned away.
Should you give up? Not yet!
Knowing what to do when your crush ignores you isn’t easy. It’s hard to read signs and know what to expect.
Yet, you have to know — are they just playing hard to get, or are they really not interested?
To figure that out, you need to take several steps to get to the bottom of it.
Using the steps in this article below, you can safely and accurately determine what to do when your crush isn’t giving you the attention you want.
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They Have a Crush on You But Don’t Know How You Feel Back
Have you ever tried to hide a crush by acting like you’re totally uninterested? There’s a possibility that’s happening to you right now. They’re playing it cool, or are a little bit anxious about hanging out and accidentally divulging their true feelings. Your crush might even be working up the courage to make their move and ask you out.
What to do about it?
Let them go. There is nothing you can do about it because they have already fallen in love with someone else.
They probably don’t want to talk to you, so accept that and give them some space until they are ready to talk again.
Maybe things won’t work out between them sooner than you expect.
You’re not their type.
It really breaks my heart to tell you this, but your crush might be ignoring you because you’re not their type. This might sound superficial. However, it is what it is.
Simply put, they have their reasons for not liking you and they are not personal. It probably has nothing to do with you as a human being and everything to do with the fact that you don’t fit into their type.
While this may be very disappointing, it’s important to accept your crush’s preferences or prove them wrong.
However, if they are ignoring you, it’s hard to learn more about them and figure out whether you’re their type or not.
What to do about it?
The only way to find out is to try and get to know them better.
Be patient, spend time in their presence and ask questions so that you can learn more about them. For example, you could find out what they like or dislike from common friends.
This process may take a while, but it might be worth it. Soon enough, you’ll know whether they like you or not.
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They Know You Like Them and They Don’t Feel the Same Way
Sometimes a crush will avoid you if they find out about your feelings for them and they aren’t mutual. They don’t want to spend too much time with you in case that makes you think they like you back, or they’re not prepared to be forced to let you down. After all, rejecting someone can be just as tough as being rejected yourself.
They are preoccupied with other things.
One of the possible reasons your crush is ignoring you is that they are preoccupied with other things.
Not everyone has time for romance and there is a possibility that your crush doesn’t have time for it either.
They may be busy with their studies or work and simply don’t have time to talk to you. Or, maybe dating someone is simply not on their priority list.
Look at it this way: They don’t want to lead you on, and that’s why they’re ignoring you.
Their choice may have nothing to do with you as a person, but with the idea of including someone in their lives or becoming intimate with someone.
What to do about it?
This isn’t the worst reason to be ignored, and if this is the case, then there is nothing much you can do but give them some space.
You can always try again later when they are less preoccupied with other things in their lives.
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They Know You Like Them and They Do Feel the Same Way
Bewildering as it might sound, sometimes knowing the other person has a crush on you back can be just as stressful as being unsure. Knowing there’s a mutual interest creates a lot of pressure for the potential relationship, and they might not be prepared to handle that right now. Plus, they might feel even more nervous and giddy around you knowing you have a big ol’ crush on them, too.
They Don’t Know You Exist
Don’t take this personally, but maybe the reason you think your crush is avoiding you is they haven’t really acknowledged you in the first place. If you’ve mostly admired them from afar, they might not even know you exist. Until you actually are introduced to them or strike up the courage to talk to them, you might remain invisible to them for a while, so get used to the “avoidance.”
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You did something wrong.
Another possible reason your crush might be ignoring you is that you did something wrong.
Maybe you offended them in some way or did something to displease them. Can you think of anything?
You can probably think of a few things.
Maybe you said something that made them uncomfortable, or you did something that they didn’t approve of. Perhaps you even did something to hurt them in some way.
Whatever the case may be, if you’ve done something to annoy your crush then there is a chance that ignoring you is personal and they are just avoiding you because they are angry at what happened.
What to do about it?
If you need to apologize for what happened, then make sure you do so.
Don’t give up if they don’t forgive you right away, though.
If they do forgive but are still trying to avoid you, then try talking it out with them. It might help clear things up and make them feel less annoyed at your actions.
However, this point also requires your patience. They probably won’t want to talk when you first approach them.
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They are not sexually attracted to you.
While looks and body types are not everything when it comes to attraction, they do play an important part.
If your crush doesn’t find you physically attractive, they might be trying to avoid you so that they don’t have to reject you.
This is especially true if the two of you are close friends or acquaintances already.
If they are someone close, then chances are that your crush has noticed that you’re having feelings for them.
They might have felt awkward at the thought of their friend liking them, or your crush might have been putting up a very convincing front to hide their feelings.
What to do about it?
For a close friend, you can try and see if they like you and if so, tell them the truth.
Make sure that they don’t feel uncomfortable around you because of the situation.
If they do feel uncomfortable, then be understanding and don’t pressure them into a date.
If they are someone you barely know, just give them some space and don’t try to force the issue because that could make things worse.
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They don’t recognize you.
Your crush may be a spiritual person who believes in the concept of soulmates. If they do and they ignore you, maybe they know something that you don’t.
Soulmates have a way of finding their way to each other and ignoring or avoiding other people is part of the process.
In a way, maybe they are just trying to help you find your soulmate by ignoring you.
Maybe they are giving you space so that you can meet someone else. It could be because you need to realize that you’re not their soulmate and that you need to find yours.
What to do about it?
By now you should be wondering, how can they know for sure that you’re not their soulmate?
The truth is:
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They think you’re a bad person.
Your crush may not like you because they think that you’re a bad/evil person.
They might have heard rumors about you or they might know certain things about your past that make them see you in a bad light.
For example, they might think that you’re a cheater, a liar, or even a criminal. This could be the reason why your crush ignores you.
Or, they might simply have a fear of you and think that you’re dangerous. In either case, this is someone who will be more than happy to ignore you.
What to do about it?
Show them that you are not those things. If you were, then tell them and ask them to reconsider liking you or getting close to you because these things don’t apply to you anymore.
You can show them that they are wrong by using logic and facts in your favor instead of them just relying on rumors. Or, you can show them that you’ve changed.
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